Att bli omtyckt

Vad är det som gör att vissa personer är enklare att tycka om än andra?


Det är något jag funderat över en hel del. Vad gör dessa personer som andra inte gör? Jag har läst en del kring ämnet, funderat mycket på personer jag träffat samt situationer jag upplevt. Det är två saker jag uppskattar, två egentligen ganska simpla saker. Eller rättare sagt, ett förhållningssätt och en metod. Och det bästa med dessa två saker är att alla kan bli bättre på dem, bara man medvetandegör dem och arbetar med dem. För visst strävar vi alla efter att bli omtyckta. Det finns ju naturligtvis mer än så att tänka på, men försöker du förbättra dig själv på nedanstående två punkter så tror jag du ökar chanserna att andra skall tycka du är en trevlig person. Det är åtminstone en start!


Var genuint intresserad av andra människor och deras berättelser.


Jag tror alla känner igen sig i följande scenario; du är på någon form av mingelaktivitet. Det kan vara en fest, en fikastund på jobbet eller en näringslivsträff. Du sitter och pratar med en person. Eller rättare sagt personen pratar med dig. Hen berättar något för dig. Du sitter och nickar mot personen som om du lyssnar men egentligen är dina tankar någon annanstans. Du hör alla andra samtal i rummet och hoppas att personen framför dig snart har pratat klart så du kan ursäkta dig. Du är inte intresserad. Känner du igen dig?


Lär dig aktivt lyssna. Sätt sig in i personens historia och ställ följdfrågor. För vad händer då? Människor öppnar upp sig och tenderar att tycka bättre om dig. Även om du inte tror det så är det ofta ganska tydligt när du inte lyssnar. Bry dig inte om vad du själv ska säga, bara lyssna!



Kom ihåg namn och tilltala personer med deras namn.


Hört någon säga ”jag är så dålig på namn” när ni hälsar, har du kanske själv sagt det? Namnet är kanske det mest personliga vi har, varje gång du hör ditt namn lyssnar du lite extra. Visst har du upplevt känslan av nöjdhet/stolthet när en person nämner dig vid namn. Är personen någon du knappt känner eller kanske någon du verkligen ser upp till blir känslan ännu starkare, inte sant?


Ett bra knep för att komma ihåg en persons namn(om man tycker det är klurigt) kan vara att du upprepar namnat när ni hälsar. Ett annat tips kan vara att försöka förknippa personen med något. Kanske hade personen samma namn som din gamla fröken?


”Lär dig att genuint lyssna på andra människors berättelser och skapa dina metoder för att minnas personers namn”


Lycka till!

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